Your judgment of the part of you or the creation or the experience that you have had is what keeps you from accepting it, and your judgment is just a rejection of it. That’s all judgment is. Judgment is a rejection of the isness, of the beingness, of the wholeness.
I’m saying, “I’m not whole, that part isn’t something I want. Or that is something I want.” Both are something outside of you. Both are something that you have rejected. That’s why it must be something you accept to be whole.
If you want your body to be functional and you take your heart out, and you still expect your body to function, that would be ridiculous. Well, that’s what you’re doing with all the pieces of you, or all the experiences you have had that you reject or judge and say, “They’re not me. I don’t like them. I don’t want them. But I still want to be whole. I don’t want to have my kidney or my liver because I don’t like the way they look and they feel squishy so I have judged them, reject them but I want my body to be function normally.”
Well it’s the same. All of your experiences are like a body part and every experience that you judge and reject, you are rejecting a part of you or a perceived part of you. And until you accept all of your experiences, all of your creations, and you accept them or love them back, you cannot be whole while they are outside of you. So people chase wholeness while they judge or reject things they have done or experienced and that doesn’t make any sense.
Back to the concepts: ‘You only chase what you believe you do not have.’ What you believe you do not have are the things you believe you have rejected. And the experiences that you have rejected are the things you believe you do not have. I do not have wholeness, in a way. I have rejected. I am wrong so I take this part of me over there and say, “That’s the wrong part of me. I will now chase a part that’s right because I have judged something as wrong.”
The judgment of wrongness means there’s something I have to go get so I have to go get a rightness to fill the whole of the wrongness. So you are always chasing what you believe you do not have.
by Michael Cavallaro
Excerpt from “Living the 55 Concepts” by Michael Cavallaro and Friends.
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